Long-distance couples
Online games for long-distance couples: free, in the browser and on your phone
The games that work best when one of you is in Lagos and the other in London or Houston: live ones for overlapping evenings, slow ones for the rest of the week.
Long distance is mostly a scheduling problem. You love each other fine; it is the six-hour gap, the night shifts and the “sorry, NEPA took light” messages that get in the way. The right games help, because they give a call something to do besides “so, how was your day?” for the fourth time this week.
This guide is for couples who are already together and living apart for now: one of you at university abroad, one working in another city, one in Lagos and one in London. We have split the picks into games you play live, when your evenings overlap, and games you play slowly, across the time difference. Every fact about another game is checked and sourced at the bottom; the picks themselves are just our opinion.
First, find your overlap
Lagos is on West Africa Time, one hour ahead of GMT, and Nigeria does not change its clocks. The UK and the US do, so the gap moves twice a year. In 2026 the UK goes back to GMT on 25 October and the US eastern clock goes back on 1 November.
| When it is 9 pm in Lagos | London | New York | Houston |
|---|---|---|---|
| Winter (from early November to March) | 8 pm | 3 pm | 2 pm |
| Summer (late March to late October) | 9 pm | 4 pm | 3 pm |
London and Lagos share an evening most of the year. Lagos and the US share a Lagos late evening and an American afternoon, which is where weekend games come in.
Live games for when your evenings overlap
AJ Cities: the same world at the same moment
Our own game, so we are biased, but it was built for exactly this. AJ Cities is a free open-world game set on the edge of Ajegunle, Lagos, and it runs in the browser on a phone or a computer, with nothing to download. In party mode you each make a character and pick a world: always day, always night, or real Lagos time. Everyone in a world sees the same time of day, so if one of you is on a lunch break in Houston and the other is up late in Lagos, you can still stand on the same street at the same 10 pm in the always-night world.
The detail long-distance couples tend to like: the estate radio plays the same song at the same moment for every player. Stand by a radio, and you are hearing the same track together, wherever you both are. Then walk down to the beach past the bush, or catch Joe-Izzy’s set at Prizm, which starts at 9 pm Lagos time.
Honest notes. It is a shared estate of up to 60 players, not a private room. The party and the club are virtual, inside the game, with no real venue, date or ticket. Most nights about four in five guests who ask the gate police are let in free, and optional tickets from ₦250 open more of the estate for 24 hours (every price). If one of you gets a real phone call, pause: you stay in the world as “away” for up to ten minutes. It is 18+.
It Takes Two and Split Fiction
Two co-op adventures from Hazelight that cannot be played alone. In both, one of you buys the game and the other joins free with the Friend’s Pass. It Takes Two (2021) needs you both on the same family of platform; Split Fiction (2025) lets the pass work across PC, PlayStation 5 and Xbox Series X|S, handy when one of you has a console and the other a laptop.
skribbl.io
A free drawing-and-guessing game in the browser. Make a private room, add your own words, and laugh at each other’s drawings of things only the two of you would know.
WorldGuessr
A free geography game: guess where in the world a Street View photo was taken. Good for couples planning where to meet next; less good if one of you insists every road is in Ghana.
Teleparty and Spotify Jam
Not games, but the backbone of many long-distance evenings. Teleparty keeps a film in sync and adds a chat; each of you needs access to the streaming service. Spotify Jam builds a shared queue, but you need Premium to host and Premium to join remotely.
Slow games for the rest of the week
When your schedules do not line up, a game you take turns on keeps you talking without both being free at once.
- Wordle. One free word a day from The New York Times, the same for everybody. Send your grid; compare at night. Josh Wardle first made it for his partner.
- Lichess. Free chess with no adverts. Set up a game and send the link.
- GamePigeon. Free iMessage games, played in your text thread, if you are both on iPhone.
- Stardew Valley. A paid farming game with online co-op. Build a farm together on weekends; it is still there when you come back.
Five ways to make a game night feel like a date
- Put it in the calendar. A standing night is easier than “maybe later”.
- Keep a call open. Most of these games have little or no voice of their own. A video call on one device and the game on another works well.
- Dress up, even in the game. In AJ Cities, the salon and clothes shop next to the main gate change your look for free.
- Have a stake. Loser chooses the next film, or owes a voice note singing the winner’s choice of song.
- End on something slow. Five quiet minutes listening to the same song beats a hasty “gotta go”.
Want more than games? See our long-distance date ideas, Lagos to London, or our picks of phone games for long-distance couples.
Questions
What games can long-distance couples play for free?
Our free picks: AJ Cities, skribbl.io, WorldGuessr, Wordle and Lichess in the browser, and GamePigeon if you both use iPhones.
What is the time difference between Lagos and London?
Lagos is one hour ahead of London in winter, when the UK is on GMT, and the same time as London in summer, when the UK is on British Summer Time.
Can we hear the same music at the same time in AJ Cities?
Yes. The estate radio plays the same song at the same moment for every player in the game.
Do both of us need to own It Takes Two or Split Fiction?
No. In both games one player buys it and the other joins free with the Friend’s Pass.
Sources
- Wikipedia: West Africa Time Nigeria is UTC+1 with no daylight saving
- GOV.UK: When do the clocks change? UK clocks go back on 25 October 2026
- Wikipedia: Daylight saving time in the United States Ends on the first Sunday in November
- Wikipedia: It Takes Two Two players only, Friend’s Pass
- Hazelight: It Takes Two platform guide Platforms and cross-platform limits
- Wikipedia: Split Fiction Co-op only, Friend’s Pass, cross-platform play
- Stevivor: Split Fiction Friend’s Pass goes cross-platform PC, PS5 and Xbox Series
- skribbl.io Free, private rooms, custom words
- WorldGuessr: compared with GeoGuessr Free modes and parties
- Teleparty support Each viewer needs access to the streaming service
- Spotify support: Start or join a Jam Premium to host and to join remotely
- Wikipedia: Wordle Free daily word, made for the creator’s partner
- Lichess: About Free, no adverts
- App Store: GamePigeon Free iMessage games
- Steam: Stardew Valley Online co-op
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